among the things we cannot show our children
are the wings
we wore before they were born,
snatched away in a moment’s grace, replaced by others
of different shape and shade
we cannot show them the face
that used to look back from the mirror’s surface
every day, until one fateful day
when it became somebody else
the hands that shaped the world around us, the thoughts
that shaped ourselves
gone
between this moment and that
what can only be talked about, never known
is the death of one person when the mother is born